why were the prophets wives not allowed to remarry after the prophets death

[yahya]

Ok thanks jazzakkallah so if we wanted just one person to be like a adam and eve can we have that or do (forcefully) we have to have more than one partner etc or can we just have one and be one couple like adam and eve or do we be forced to have more than one partner etc if you know what I mean jazzakkallah

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Peace. Again our Lord doesn't tell us.

[Hamzeh]

Asalamu Alykum Yahya

Just some background information that Adam and his wife were arguably not created in the "Jannah" that is mostly thought of from a traditional point of view which is Paradise. The term “Jannah” which also carries the meaning of “Garden" is more possibly referring to a earthly place in this life.

Please see the related article below[6]

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so 44:54 and 52:21 when it say wed them or couple them does that mean remarry to earthy husbands and wifes or does it mean you will be already married when you enter after choosing who you want to be with and then marrying you off to new people etc

That verse 44:54 specifically does not mean they will be remarried to earthly husbands or wifes. However from other verses God has informed us that believing family members and spouses will be able to see each other. Verse 44:54 speaks about "Hoorin"

There is nothing in the verses that states someone will already be married when they enter heaven, or marriage has been selected for them.

God tells us in a way of a glad tiding something to look forward to, that believers will have companions, friends, that will be pure and a joy to the eye. God will pair or couple the believers with them.

44:51-54
Indeed, the righteous will be in a secure place;
Within gardens and springs,
Wearing [garments of] fine silk and brocade, facing each other.
Even so (it will be). And We shall wed(pair)(zawwajnahum) them unto fair ones with wide, lovely eyes(hoorinAAeen).

To confirm again verse 51 to 54 informs us that God will give a gift to both those men and women who are righteous that He will pair them (or wed them in a different way than on earth) companions who are pure fair ones with lovely eyes. Nothing to do with marriage with earthly couples. Please remember marriage on earth requires laws and agreements and so on. God is saying in that verse this is something yet to come.

you said

does these 2 verses imply forcefulness meaning you have to have another husband or wife on top of your first one meaning can you decide just to be with your husband and wife like a single couple like adam and eve or do you have to have more or are these verses just offering if you want more but not forcesing meaning it's your choice to have more or not that you don't have to have more if you don't want more meaning it's your choice

Even in this earthly world we are not forced to marry anyone. How then in heaven?
You still have not changed your question pattern and still implying that marriage in heaven is the same as earth. Your making it sound like there is betrayal and unfaithfulness and lewdness in heaven. Please understand Heaven is a place of peace, enjoyment and bliss. Nothing will be disturbing. Heaven is far better than this life. God the Maker of everything tells us that.
 
Pickthall
(36:56) They and their wives, in pleasant shade, on thrones reclining;

Yusuf Ali
(36:56) They and their associates will be in groves of (cool) shade, reclining on Thrones (of dignity);

To understand the word “azwajuhum” as wives just shows that one is understanding this verse separately without reading the context. However that still does not mean that they will be married in the same way as we humans are married on earth.

Now if the verse is read IN CONTEXT with the previous verse as it should be done you will realize that ALL the inhabitants dwellers of Paradise will be in pleasant shade on thrones reclining with their “azwajuhum” meaning pairs companions. This could be a reference to the hurs as brother Eliiah stated in verse 44:54.

35:55
Verily, the dwellers of the Paradise, that Day, will be busy in joyful things.

35:56
They and their associates will be in groves of (cool) shade, reclining on Thrones (of dignity);

Brother Yahya I'll post the related articles and thread below and if you need more information on this topic please go over them again. Insha'Allah you will understand the perspective shared to the best of our abilities which I find in complete agreement with the verses of the Quran. I feel I'm starting to repeat myself over and over without any new information.

Salam

[1] UNDERSTANDING DIFFERENT WORLDS
https://facebook.com/joseph.a.islam/posts/420605631409903

[2] Wordly couples in Jannah?
http://quransmessage.com/forum/index.php?topic=1466.0

[3] women paridise polygamy forced
http://quransmessage.com/forum/index.php?topic=1979.msg9826#msg9826

[4] Hurs
http://quransmessage.com/forum/index.php?topic=2012.msg10017#msg10017

[5] SEXY FEMALE VIRGINS FOR MEN IN PARADISE - REALLY?
http://quransmessage.com/articles/sexy%20female%20virgins%20for%20men%20in%20heaven%20FM3.htm

[6] ADAM (pbuh) AND JANNAH - AN EARTHLY ABODE OR PARADISE?
http://quransmessage.com/articles/adam%20and%20jannah%20FM3.htm

[yahya]

Ok thanks maybe to sum up everything to the point and some scholars are of the opion 1. does everyone enter to paridise single and then married of or 2. just some enter single and some enter married to paridise or 3. does everyone eneter married to paridise.

[yahya]

Any thoughts jazzakkallah

[QM Moderators Team]

Yayha,

Please can you kindly consider your posts and stop almost badgering forum members for responses. You seem to ask questions very quickly without giving much appreciation for the immense time other forum members are spending to answer your question in detail. Please also try to do some study yourself rather just ask questions repeatedly .....

Thanks!