May peace be with you.
The Arabic 'ujibu' from the verb 'ajaba' means to answer or to give a response. It is similar to the noun 'jawab' from the same root which means 'an answer'.
Simply, we need to accept that sometimes God's answer (jawab) is 'No'.
If we have true faith and trust in God, we should be willing to accept that the 'no' is for very good reason and accept His response.
I hope that helps, God willing.
Joseph