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Sorry my bad. So I'll list the questions below

1) for Khula or ransoming out of the marriage does wife need the husbands agreement? If she does then what happens when the husband forces her to stay when she doesn't want to?
2) in case of abuse by the husband does she still have to pay the mahr back if she wants to leave him?
3) a man can divorce without any reason but a woman cannot?

So if the wife wants to give dower back and get out of marriage she can without the husband agreeing to it ? And what if the husband is abusing the wife? Does she have to give back dower still to get out? Which sounds horrible tbh. And also the fact that wife has to ask the husband to agree  to give back dower is quite abhorrent. Idk what to think about this.  This all sounds like women have no authority to leave the marriage If they want to and rather depend on the whims of their husbands. This is highly abusive.

Can women initiate divorce according to Quran? I know men can basically initiate it without any reason or nushuz involved, and they don't need any help from court where as women traditional have been barred from initiating divorce at all and in cases they do they have to pay back mahar and that too only in cases of abuse and also the husbands permission  is needed which makes no sense.  This all has been disturbing me a lot.

Can women initiate divorce according to Quran? I know men can basically initiate it without any reason or nushuz involved, and they don't need any help from court where as women traditional have been barred from initiating divorce at all and in cases they do they have to pay back mahar and that too only in cases of abuse and also the husbands permission  is needed which makes no sense.  This all has been disturbing me a lot.