Salaam
I hope you are fine.
Lately, there's been a query in mind regarding the issue of polygamy in Islam. Well, I agree on this that societal circumstances in that era might not be easily appreciated if we strictly analyze them through modern lens.
However, there does appear a sense of injustice to women when the husband is permitted to share his love among wives.
Then there is this matter of self-constraint. What really makes a man to marry again? Fulfillment of urges?
Obviously there are other ways to help women apart from marrying them. Why isn't there emphasis on loyalty to one spouse for man? A person can live a sane life without having any intimacy with opposite gender then what's the need of polygamy and that too, just for males?
A second discussion is about your article on Marriage with the People of Book. Okay, I agree that there's a clear difference in their beliefs from ours. But I would like to highlight another aspect, and I am sure you also share this sentiment, that a majority of Muslims today don't really know about their own religion and we are somehow separated from People of the Book just by this 'label' of religion.
I still struggle with certain elements of faith even though I feel that I am getting closer. Now I am not at this point arguing about Muslim marrying a Christian. I am concerned about Muslim marrying a Muslim!!! I mean how can one be sure of another's faith? You are free to marry someone because he or she was born a Muslim and just this 'label' of Islam is sufficient for you to make him/her your spouse.
I look forward to your response.
I hope you are fine.
Lately, there's been a query in mind regarding the issue of polygamy in Islam. Well, I agree on this that societal circumstances in that era might not be easily appreciated if we strictly analyze them through modern lens.
However, there does appear a sense of injustice to women when the husband is permitted to share his love among wives.
Then there is this matter of self-constraint. What really makes a man to marry again? Fulfillment of urges?
Obviously there are other ways to help women apart from marrying them. Why isn't there emphasis on loyalty to one spouse for man? A person can live a sane life without having any intimacy with opposite gender then what's the need of polygamy and that too, just for males?
A second discussion is about your article on Marriage with the People of Book. Okay, I agree that there's a clear difference in their beliefs from ours. But I would like to highlight another aspect, and I am sure you also share this sentiment, that a majority of Muslims today don't really know about their own religion and we are somehow separated from People of the Book just by this 'label' of religion.
I still struggle with certain elements of faith even though I feel that I am getting closer. Now I am not at this point arguing about Muslim marrying a Christian. I am concerned about Muslim marrying a Muslim!!! I mean how can one be sure of another's faith? You are free to marry someone because he or she was born a Muslim and just this 'label' of Islam is sufficient for you to make him/her your spouse.
I look forward to your response.