RESPONSE GIVEN BY JOSEPH ISLAM
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Peace.
I could not concur more with brother [Name Removed] excellent post [above]. Having studied both Ibn Hajar Asqalani's Fath al-Bari and Badr Al-Ayni's Umdat al Qari on this particular matter and with regards Bukhari's commentary, I am truly aghast at the discussions that have ensued and the sordid details that it contains. It is certainly not comfortable study!
The Arabic word 'harth' means to till, or cultivate land, either by sowing or by planting: (Taj ul-Urus) or when one ploughs up land for sowing: (Mughrib of El-Mutarrizee) because the doing so is a means of gain. It has the inherent meaning of acquisition, reward (gain), seed-produce or what is grown or raised as by means of seed planting.
One reads the beauty with which Allah has portrayed the message. The analogy is clearly one of a farmer who will cultivate his lands, sow the seeds at its proper seasons to reap its benefits. No limitations are set with regards how many times one approaches their partners, however one can clearly note a subtlety of comparison with regards fertilisation cycles. One approaches their spouse much in the same way a farmer approaches his fields sowing seeds at the proper period to expect a gain, a beautiful worldly gain, but a gain indeed.
I wonder how a farmer would be expected to sow seeds with a view to cultivate land in an improper manner and then still expect a 'positive yield'?
The exquisite Quranic guidance is a far cry from some of the incredulous reports found in the Ahadith corpus.
Volume 6, Book 60, Number 51:
Narrated Jabir:
Jews used to say: "If one has sexual intercourse with his wife from the back, then she will deliver a squint-eyed child."
So this Verse was revealed:--
"Your wives are a tilth unto you; so go to your tilth when or how you will." (2.223)