I am also gonna give some short replies to some of your links
1.Understanding Trials why ME
My question was about people who get tested and win the tests and get rewarded while other people like dead children never get tested and still get the same reward.This article does not address that.About this you also say something I can't quite understand but seems to be implying that God will judge the young one for what that they would have done if they had lived am i correct?
2.Trust to the Heaven Earth and Mountains
About this verse "We have offered the responsibility (freedom of choice) to the heavens and the earth, and the mountains, but they refused to bear it, and were afraid of it. But the human being accepted it; he was transgressing, ignorant." 33:72 Joseph Islam gives this answer" Salamun Alaikum,
With regards 33:72, a trust 'amana' carries a huge amount of responsibility as it has inherent power to exercise authority. This trust is also linked in my opinion to man's vicegerancy on Earth (2:30). Man was given 'responsibilities' on Earth and volition to exercise analogous to a caretaker. He has also been expected to recognise his Creator and to worship Him. This is possibly what prompted the question posed by the angels "Will you place in it one that will spread corruption and will shed blood while we glorify You with Your praises and we sanctify You?" (2:30)
However, other creations of God have also been mentioned with no such power of volition or vicegerancy such as other celestial objects, sun, moon, other stars etc (i.e. Heavens) along with the earth and the mountains which simply run their course. The hypothetical is used 'but they refused' to signify that God may have offered His other creation such power of authority but their response in the negation clearly implies that such creation were not ready to accept such a responsibility. This hypothetical is also picked up in verse 59:21 "Had We sent down this Quran on a mountain, verily, you would have seen it humble itself and cleave asunder for fear of God"
This clearly implies man accepted such a responsibility based on volition. This also goes back to the heart of the primordial contract in verse 7:172, where we were asked at the point when we were brought forth from our parents, '"Am I not your Lord (who cherishes and sustains you)?"- They said: "Yes! We do testify!" (This), less you should say on the Day of Judgment: "Of this we were never mindful"
Man being foolish / ignorant (jahil) or unjust (zalim) signifies that to take on such authoritative responsibilities demands a huge undertaking and answerability which man may not have fully considered and in that sense may have also remained unjust to himself. However God's mercy would see continuous guidance in the form of Prophets and messengers to be sent to mankind to keep them in obeisance to God's laws (7:35)
[man = mankind / humans]
I hope this helps.
Your brother,
Joseph."
Let me see if I understood this correctly God offered non-living objects like the sun earth and mountains freedom of choice(responsibility) but somehow even though they are not alive and not self-aware they rejected this offer while man accepted the responsibility of free will with his own free will ? Is that correct? Did man have free will when he chose to accept this responsibility?
Adam and Eve in Heaven.
This article argues that Jannah is not referring to islamic Paradise in this case despite the fact it is used to refer to paradise in every other verse.I can't decide what to think about that yet.
Suffering & Adversity
This does not address any of points I presented however I would like to address something in this article 004.078-79
"Wherever you are, death will find you out, even if ye are in towers built up strong and high!" If some good befalls them, they say, "This is from God"; but if evil, they say, "This is from thee" (O Prophet). Say: "All things are from God." But what has come to these people, that they fail to understand a single fact? "Whatever good, (O man!) happens to you, is from God; but whatever evil happens to you, is from thy (own) soul and We have sent thee as a messenger to (instruct) mankind. And enough is God for a witness" Don't you ever wonder what kind of evil some children did to deserve evil things like cancer?
And still it comes down to " We can't understand God's wider scheme"
The Purpose of Humanity A power of Truth
I already explained that if God has no needs then our existence is unncessary how can we serve any purpose if we are not needed?
I am very patient have no doubt about that but til I get answers I can't jump to conclusions like '' Greeat i have found God''