Dear Shahmatt,
May peace be with you.
In much resonance with the above, please also see the following Q&A.
Does passing wind from the anus invalidate wudu?http://quransmessage.com/forum/index.php?topic=675.msg2507#msg2507Does "contact with women" imply only sexual contact or any form of physical contact? In the Muslim community I come from even an accidental touch with a member of the opposite sex will render Wudhu void.
In my humble opinion, there is no proof that a mere simple physical contact
(non-sexual) renders the ablution invalid.
'Lamasa' means to touch, any sort of touch. However, the verb
'lamasa' in the context of verse 5:6 and 4:43 in the expression
'lamastumu'nisaa' has a context and is a reference to
sexual contact. As with any language a word can have different meanings depending on context.
For example:
- Keep in 'touch'
- Don't 'touch' my belongings
- This 'touching' incident happened last year
- He 'touched' me (non-sexual)
- He 'touched' me (sexual)
For example the expression
'al-misni jariyata' implies 'will you permit me to feel, or touch, the girl' or
'al-misni amratan' implies 'will you marry me to a woman'. Or one says when a woman fornicates or commits adultery
'fa'lana tahu la taradu yada lamisin' or
'la tamnau ya da la'misin'.
Furthermore, even one's mother is a woman. In that case, would touching one's mother render ablution invalid? If you have ever been to Hajj or Umrah, you would have noted that often in the congested environment or crush it is almost impossible not to accidentally touch other people who at times are individuals of the opposite gender.
I hope that helps, God willing.
Joseph.