Salamu Alykum Adam
you said
If God told me in the Quran that when the day comes in which i will face Him, The day will be equivalent to 1000 years back on earth, I will straight away think that time runs slower in His Realm. No two ways around that when reading the verses.
Take this verse for example
7:54 Your Guardian-Lord is Allah, Who created the heavens and the earth in six days(Ayyamin), and is firmly established on the throne (of authority): He draweth the night as a veil o'er the day, each seeking the other in rapid succession: He created the sun, the moon, and the stars, (all) governed by laws under His command. Is it not His to create and to govern? Blessed be Allah, the Cherisher and Sustainer of the worlds!If you try to view the word Ayyamin(Days) as periods or events instead of actual day as how we see it today the verses could be more clear. The Quran also states that the moon is an indication of time. And that there is 12 month in a calendar year. So when God tells us about 1 event or period that is a 1000 years of what we recognize we instantly know that its a very long time. It seems like the concept of how we will recognize time will remain the same on earth and on Judgment Day this is only to us humans.
We should separate the idea of how we humans view time and how God views it. He is just giving us the understanding about His creation of time which He is not necessarily subject to it.
It seems like the period that God has created for His judgement to take place on the Day of Judgment will be equal to 50000 years of what we view in this life. Or it could be that the 50000 years could just be the period in which the Angels and the Spirit take decrees back and forth from God as in 97:4.
you said
I just find it hard to accept that God mentioned it like that, instead of telling it like it is; that there will be no sense of time when facing Him at the day of judgement.
Well God is not bound to time. As He is the Creator of time and Judgment Day. It seems like we will still have a sense of time. It could be that OUR recollection of time on the Day of Judgment will remain the same way it is presently on earth and thats why God is saying it will FEEL like 50,000 years of this time.
22:47 And they will bid thee hasten on the Doom, and Allah faileth not His promise, but lo! a Day with Allah is as a thousand years of what ye reckon.
Remember whatever God has planned out to be part of His creation will always come true. He may of set it up as phases or events or periods of which is a measure that goes by Days with Allah that must play its roles. Then God explains to us those periods by a way of our understanding of time in years because then we understand how much a 1000 years could feel like since we know what 1 year feels like.
God Himself is the ever-present. Always was and always will be. He is the Creator. God is the only Being. Glory be to Him.
So God would not be subject to time.
This is only my understanding to the best of my ability about time. He is the Creator of it.
God know best of all things
With peace and blessings Insha'Allah