Dear Wanderer,
Please don't feel I am becoming impatient. I am simply curtailing the need for protracted discussions. To truly understand a
Quran-centric perspective, one really has to divorce themselves from traditional learnings and my approach at times is to respectfully provide that shift in thought by asking direct questions. Rather than getting the Quran to prove a traditional position,
it is the traditional position that needs to find proof in the Quran.
In summary, please kindly see my responses to your queries in blue:
My other source of great confusion is that the Quran speaks of marriage with the hurs in 44:54There is no mention of
'marriage' (nikaah) in verse 44:54 exclusively. This is an earthly concept. The Quran merely says
'zawaja / zawj' which simply doesn't mean marriage but also to pair / couple. Please kindly see how the word is used in 6:143 to describe twos of sheep and goats when taken in pairs or in verse 35:11 as a description of us humans being created in pairs (different genders). Therefore, this word simply speaks at best of pairing or companionship. We must be willing to forgo earth-centric interpretations when we will be created a new / different creation (56:35). A creation not yet fully unknown to us. With respect, I have covered this in the article.
What will marriage be like in the Hereafter?This begs the question, why is this such a pressing matter when the Quran only seeks to present similitudes of a world that we cannot fully fathom?
And what will happen to our earthly spouses, who the Quran also says will join us in the Hereafter?Where does the Quran say this? There are earthly spouses that will also enter hell-fire. Even some of the wives of the prophets were unrighteous. (See examples of Prophets Noah and Lot - 66:10). Why would all spouses be expected to go to heaven? Furthermore, why would that matter,
when earthly ties will be severed and there will no bonds? (23:101 / 60:3). The guilty will even be prepared to ransom their own earthly children if they could (70:11) along with their spouse and brother (70:12), and the kindred that protected them on earth (70:13).
Of course, one will be able to regroup with the righteous of their relatives from earth, but that does not mean we interpret this as 'earthly bonds' or just near kinship. Verse 52:21 speaks about descendants and this may comprise of many earthly generations.
Please also kindly see the following thread:
Wordly couples in Jannah?http://quransmessage.com/forum/index.php?topic=1466.msg6728#msg6728I hope this helps, God willing
Joseph