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Women / Re: Divorce
« Last post by Wakas on September 17, 2024, 11:22:49 PM »What a refusal to answer the question.
Wrong. I already answered it.
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She was clearly asking if she would have to return the mahr if she wanted to divorce from an abusive husband. Your answer is yes, so why not just say that? In your interpretation, she has to return her marriage gift to an abusive husband so she is able to get out of her marriage.
Wrong again. Rather than claiming what my position is why not provide a quote from me which proves what you claim is my position is actually my position.
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Now they have to suffer financially, birth babies, take care of said babies (including the manchild husband), her in-laws, etc, and STILL return the mahr? Imagine doing all that and you still have to give more.
Yet there is no such stipulation on the husband to give anything to his ex-wife who is far more likely to suffer as a result and is far more likely to be stuck with children, and far more likely to suffer societal wrath, whether she initiates the divorce or not.
Wrong again. Where in Quran does it say the wife gets stuck with the children / father does not need to provide for them / husband does not provide anything to ex-wife etc.
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The real question in the context of this discussion should be: if one wants to follow the more Western model of divorce with both being able to initiate divorce, is that fine in Islam or not?
I cannot answer for the religion of "Islam" with a capital "I". If you are referring to Quran based islam then I already answered this.